And now I look at her boy and trying to understand the essence of his choice. Maybe in my adult world stale notion of child "Being wanted" toys. What dreams of his mind? Where is he, mentally, it sews a button? Why is his choice fell on this green and ugly? Why he, rather than the hysterical claims, as quiet crying? Well, why his tears of such hopelessness and resignation? Perhaps in his heart there is a struggle "want" to doubt "need"? Recalling his knowledge in psychology education of their children, I understand that it is impossible to admit that – to stage a whim turned into a stage sincere grief. Perhaps I had previously allowed a crude denial without explanation, could not easily persuaded inappropriate, or inability to fulfill his wishes and single-handedly decided, as a categorical refusal. As Psychologists say: "locked negative emotion, created a state of chronic mental stress" and now the child has lost credibility with me. He emerged a hidden resentment and discontent.
A child's grief how would it have seemed ridiculous and absurd in a baby crying, very deep impact on the character and soul. Need for time itself to become a child to look around and then maybe be able to open the door to understanding child psychology. Need to learn to respect the feelings of the child. What do the tears of a child? Small men are already fairly well understood rules of conduct and prohibitions, but can not always control your feelings, desires, and tend to profound experiences.