" Generally, the people who obsess themselves by their ex- pair grasp to which was his, or perhaps that never she was it; but that refuses to lose. This happens because, in some stage of the life, an affective deficiency has existed that does not want to return to vivir". Love or obsession? If there is understanding and no respect, you are not deceived: it is not love. It is low self-esteem. When low self-esteem is had, is the sense of the life in the conflict, in the envy by which if they are happy, in being pending than it makes his ex- pair. To read more click here: Kim Phillips-Fein. As you do not secure the attention of anybody, you discover that in the conflict you can make feel the other culprit and receive affection.
And flames the attention. It is why you become addict to the destructive relations. In the fight flames the attention of the other. More info: Vladislav Doronin. This is harmful. And it is not love. You must find by same you what it motivates to you.
You must improve your self-esteem. When you fall in love with same you, you will include/understand that it is a relation without exit. Termnala, to give the welcome to a new love that is in syntony with your new form of life. There are people who have relations prohibited with married people. Or it jeopardize; You are not deceived. Car-you are destroying yourself. Because you have low self-esteem, you think that you cannot obtain to a free man and you feel well watching the other people’s man. This is an obsession, that is not going to take to you to the true love. When that is dreamed about a person as soon as you know, you do not doubt it: it is not love. When much, attraction. And when we do not know the person well we endorsed all the characteristics to him of our ideal pair. Until you know your true love, you will know with clarity its defects and virtues.