Parenting with a belt, cuffs and slaps by the rope could never have a positive impact on any child. rather it instills a resentment and stubbornness, or the cowardice and mendacity. Even if the child is grown up will not hold a grudge against his parents, he is unlikely to be grateful to parents for everything that happened. And those who say “grateful” are afraid to admit to themselves that it was possible and without spanking. They do not believe that education can do without spanking. Read more here: Carson Wen. Because if we recognize that we can bring in another way, it means to recognize their inability to find a reasonable route of exposure for children. And also recognize that their own parents were wrong, and that now they make mistakes and should all be changed. That is the scary: to change something in yourself, not knowing exactly how and where this will lead. Think about when you are most likely to spank their children? When you’re tired and irritable when you do not want to insight into many causes of what is happening when you feel powerless over your child when you easier to hit than to pick the right words, when no longer able to control your emotions. Do you understand? The true cause of your aggression – it’s not a bad child behavior and parent’s inability to cope with their emotions and desire to “let off steam. Such a parent is not able to control their behavior and simply breaks down on the child.